It is common for the mother and father to not get along, and problems and disagreements occur between them. We are human beings, we agree and disagree, and conflicts are part of our lives. Both parties try to find compromise solutions to make life easier.
But sometimes they are unable to do so, and problems accumulate, and life becomes impossible between them, So the most appropriate solution for them becomes divorce. But what effect does this have on the children?
Children deserve to live in a peaceful and harmonious environment, free from conflicts and problems. In situations where such an environment is not possible due to parental disputes, the children’s well-being should separate the parents. The impact of separation on children is much less detrimental than the impact of living in a toxic and unhealthy environment.
Children at a young age need the mother more than the father, because naturally, the mother knows her child well, understands his needs, and can take care of the details of daily life. The child should not be used as a means of revenge in divorce matters. The matter must be resolved peacefully, and the parents must make an appropriate plan regarding child custody. It is also important that neither party distorts the image of the other party in the eyes of the child, as he has nothing to do with your problems. For him, you are his parents. You should also consult a child psychologist to seek help in reducing the negative effects of divorce on the child.
Continuous Support
Talking and communicating with children helps them a lot in getting through this stage. Both parties must explain the matter to the child in a simple way, and provide continuous support because the child feels guilty that this happened, and he believes that he is the reason. It is important to explain the matter to the child and that he has nothing to do with it.
The child also should not feel the difference. Divorce does not mean losing one of the parents. The child should feel the presence of both parents in his life and should see that the parents are compatible after the divorce, without aggression or hatred. This will reduce the negative effects on him as well.
Children are our responsibility. They are not responsible for the difficulties and problems we experience. It is our duty to provide them with a good life, so that they can enjoy a peaceful life, and grow up in good mental health.
Reference for the images:
https://hollyhefton.com/navigating-divorce-with-children-5-tips-for-co-parenting-after-separation/
https://www.purplehouseclinic.co.uk/equipping-parents-to-support-their-childrens-mental-health/
https://cafemom.com/lifestyle/220245-things-that-are-worse-for-kids-than-divorce
